Let’s just get it out there—this child before you: What a miracle!! Yes, it can be exhausting with interrupted sleep and your non-stop concern over whether or not you’re doing things ‘right’. So let me reassure you right here and now—RELAX! If all you do is give your newborn child your time and attention (ie, bond with your child), meet their needs in terms of feeding, diaper-changing, sleep and necessary immunizations you’re doing great! Giving birth is a gigantic effort! Moms need to … [Read more...]
PLAY: Making the Men We NEED
Play is an essential component of childhood. It could even be considered a basic survival need much like shelter, food and touch. Of the many, many benefits play imparts, one of the most far-reaching and long-lasting effects could be in the preparation of future fathers. Children learn by doing; and often, what they do, is what they see. A lot of what they see is a parent or caregiver tending to a younger sibling or baby. Children incorporate this into their pretend play. Pretend play offers … [Read more...]
Play & Specific Needs
Toys may be geared to little children, but they are BIG business. They usually are marketed to select niches. For example: to babies, girls, boys, or special needs kids. In my opinion, that targeting is misplaced. I’m not fond of labels. They’re limiting for one, ‘trapping’ kidlets into expected behavior. In addition, labels can follow a child along have long term repercussions. In my opinion, one label, in particular, burdens a child unfairly and unnecessarily: hyperactive. To me, it’s natural … [Read more...]
Why Playing with Baby Dolls is (Very) Important
Baby dolls have stood the test of time…and with good reason! Children learn by doing. And often what they do, is what they see. A lot of what they see is a parent or care giver taking care of a younger sibling or baby. Playing with baby dolls comes naturally! Speaking of what comes naturally... Play is the natural, organic way to learn. In fact, because play often involves using both sides of the body—developing bilateral coordination—and the brain, it’s a holistic activity. Baby dolls offer … [Read more...]
Guest Post for Fort Boards: Play and Acceptance
I LOVE supporting local businesses--especially local TOY businesses!! Fort Boards fits the bill! Fort Boards makes an awesome toy that'll have your kidlet creating structures that're only limited by their imaginations! I was so very appreciative to have the opportunity to share my thoughts on play. Specifically, my thoughts on the power of play and how it can be used to foster compassion, acceptance and ultimately love for one another. Below is the post: … [Read more...]